As a courtship
ritual, “dating” is a relatively new practice in Japan. Before the modern
era, it was considered inappropriate for an unattached young woman to be
seen in public with a man who was not her father or brother.
This made courtship
difficult of course; but a determined young man could still find an excuse
to create “alone time” with the object of his affections. Japan has a
lengthy rainy season known as the tsuyu (梅雨),
during which an umbrella is a necessary accoutrement when walking outside.
A gentleman could ask a lady to share his umbrella, or kasa (傘)
for protection from the rain. This of course gave the man a chance to
ingratiate himself with the woman—without resorting to overly forward or
potentially scandalous behavior.
挨拶まわり
AISATSU MAWARI
making the
rounds of courtesy calls
When a Japanese executive or sales
manager takes a new post, one of his first tasks is aisatsu mawari.
The aisatsu mawari consists of visits to the company’s major
clients and commercial partners. After a self-introduction at each
company, the manager will try to assess the challenges and future
direction of each business relationship.
Aisatsu-mawari is also a
standard part of the New Year’s business rituals. Salespersons visit
customers to thank them for their business in the previous year, and ask
for their continued patronage during the new one.