In Japan,
confectionaries and bakeries sell cakes made especially for the Christmas
holiday (which is celebrated as a secular holiday in largely Buddhist
Japan). The Christmas Cakes that don’t sell by the twenty-fifth of
December are either discarded or sold as at a discount, as they are now
“past their prime.”
The stale Christmas
cake is a traditional Japanese metaphor for an unmarried woman past the
age of twenty-five. Through the mid-1980s, Japanese women believed that
they had to marry by the age of twenty-five, or they would be doomed to
become lonely old maids. In 1970, only 18 percent of Japanese women over
the age of 27 were still single.
This mindset has
changed in recent years, though; and the average Japanese woman is
remaining single even longer than her American counterparts. By 1990, over
40 percent of Japanese women in their late twenties had not yet tied the
knot. By 2004, the number of never married women in the 25-29 age group
had shot up to 54 percent (compared to only 40 percent in the United
States.)
Almost everyone
agrees that Japanese women are deliberately choosing to delay (or even
forgo) marriage. A poll conducted by the Japan Institute of Life Insurance
found that about half of Japanese single women between the ages of 35 and
54 have no intention to marry—ever.
Reactions to the New Trends
In tradition-bound
Japan, this trend has caused shockwaves in the media and halls of
government. The trend also has a very real effect on the nation’s
demographics. Marriage rates are directly tied to fertility, and Japan’s
current birth rate of 1.29 children per woman is too low to sustain the
current population. Beginning in 2006, the number of deaths in Japan will
exceed the number of births for the first time, and the population will
begin to decrease. This has made the powers-that-be positively flustered
at the women who deliberately eschew marriage and family.
According to
government polls, the women themselves blame the difficulty of
childrearing and ossified male attitudes for their unwillingness to marry.
A recent survey revealed that Japanese men spend less than 10 minutes per
day assisting their wives with housework and childrearing tasks. After
marriage, the woman is still more or less expected to quit her job and
become a fulltime homemaker.
Of course, there are
dissenting opinions in regard to this point. Some commentators have
suggested that it the Japanese housewife who enjoys the benefits of
marriage. Modern household conveniences have made housework less arduous
than it was a generation ago; and lower birthrates have made childrearing
less of a burden. As a result, many married women enjoy unprecedented
amounts of free time to pursue hobbies and personal interests. The
Japanese husband, meanwhile, has to spend long hours working in a
corporate office.
In either case, it is
clear that the term “Christmas Cake” has become an anachronism in less
than twenty years. Henceforth, the word will likely apply only to
pastries.