HESOKURI
臍繰り
secret savings
In Japanese families, the wife is
usually in control of the household purse strings. Most Japanese husbands
lack the time or inclination to balance bank accounts and pay bills.
Financial disbursements and budgeting are considered to be important
aspects of household management--the fulltime pursuit of most married
Japanese women.
Sometimes housewives put aside a
bit of money as a “secret savings.” The purpose might be to cover
unforeseen emergency expenditures, to buy gifts for family members, or
plain old “mad money.” (Japanese enjoy the occasional shopping spree as
much as anyone.)
This money is excluded from the
household accounts, and is usually hidden in a place where other family
members are unlikely to find it. Sometimes even the housewives forget
where they put their secret savings--and such a blunder is a stock comic
element in Japanese sitcoms and comics.
Although the heso-kuri is
generally associated with housewives, husbands sometimes set aside secret
savings too. Many men keep their secret savings in a locked desk drawer at
the workplace.