Sometimes a course of action that
sounds like a good idea at first seems less attractive upon further
reflection. The verb
思い止まる(おもいとどまる)indicates
a change of heart. 思い止まる
is a compound verb that is formed from the verb
思う(おもう=
[think] and
止まる(とどまる)=
[stop].
If you want to bring about a
change of someone else’s mind or heart, then use the transitive form of
the verb, 思い止まらせる(おもいとどまらせる).
A closely related word is
抑止
する
(よくし
する)or
“to deter”
